Relationships, like cheese, start out smooth and delicious – until they start to stink. Fights, contrary to what is taught in marriage counseling courses and for beginners in relationships, are not a glitch. They are not a glitch – they are a lifestyle. An art. A way to express feelings, vent frustrations, and remind your partner that you exist, that you are not satisfied, and that you actually remember what happened at his sister’s wedding exactly five years ago.